What guys don’t really like is being spontaniously asked for giving a reliable answer on what they’re doing at the moment. This is so because men often do not have a reliable answer and are urged to think about one quickly. Then they will come up with any answer that they could at least try to defend. They still are uncomfortable with the situation.
The whole thing gets more difficult as guys sometimes come up with crap they enjoy that they never want to defend with words:
Can you see Brian’s history on that topic? Him being at home on a wonderful day, staying in the garden, watching the sun and the bees and the birds and the trees, going to the toilet, seeing the sink, thinking about it…
But then there’s not twitter but your girlfriend suddenly standing next to you and asks “What are you doing?”. And within a second you recognize: This is not a question.
And within an hour you realize: This is not my girlfriend any longer. But hey, now I got the bathroom on my own, so this is a victory somehow, don’t you think?